Above infographic is inspired by Jetsun Milarepa Tibetan Siddha, who later turned Buddhist. He says, when we start meditating, it should be selfless. Whatever we do must emerge from an attitude of love and benefitting others. Thus, all meditation must begin with arousing deep compassion. Keep meditating, feeling of compassion will arouse with time.
What do you think, where would meditation take you? Many people associate meditation with people, who go to a jungle or mountains in search of peace or truth. there they become very lonely, their connection with civilization gets cut off. However, a meditator finds happiness in every situation. Thus meditation is a pathway to lasting joy. Keep Meditating
Is everything under our control? Maybe not, sometimes situations are not under our control. We feel helpless, angry, sad, worthless or all at the same time. Think of a situation when we are caught in a traffic jam. We can't turn back. We are unable to go ahead. Under such scenarios, we may come across people honking desperately, we may also come across another set of people who would sit calmly. These calm people have an inherant quality of a meditator. Keep meditating.